Over the years we have seen the figures for divorces increase significantly after the Christmas holidays and although we have come to accept that this happens it is still rather difficult to understand exactly why.

Client’s who instruct me to issue a divorce when questioned about the timing give various explanations however it seems to boil down to the notion that it is a “new year” and they simply do not want to put up with their spouse for another 12 months. I believe that this attitude is compounded by the stress related to Christmas. The fact that they have either had a miserable time over Christmas whether it be because they have endured their spouse at home for a lengthy period of time or just because they have tried to keep the family together for a happy Christmas; lets face it, we all try hard to make Christmas an enjoyable time for our children.

It is definitely not correct to simply put it down to a one off incident occurring over the Christmas period, although figures for domestic violence related incidents also increase over this period, often as a result of increased alcohol consumption. However these one off incidents are relied upon and detailed in unreasonable behaviour Divorce Petitions. Adultery and the discovery/revelations made during this period also appear to be significant. More often than not, it is a culmination of pre-existing problems, spending more time together and of course the increased financial pressure that Christmas brings that seem to come to ahead and essentially lead one or the other spouse to seek legal advice in relation to separating and divorce.

I would advise the general public to continue to seek advice from experienced family solicitors as to the options available to them before taking any action. Emotion can often get the better of people which could ultimately prejudice their legal position when it comes down to occupying property and responsibility for paying mortgage and rent etc, there is no need for haste because Divorce is something that takes time to progress. It is also essential that the effects of separating and divorcing couples can have a severe effect upon the children and therefore if possible taking advice in relation to the best ways to separate can ensure where possible that the separation is an amicable one. Knowledge is the key and therefore seeking advice about the options available is essential. It is also important to note that the client provides the instructions and therefore determines the speed at which these matters progress.

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